Catholic rules for dating
Have you made a false idol out of marriage or relationship?
This is a good image of two dynamics that often happen after divorce: some don’t have enough sense and want to jump right back in, and others want to get out of the pool altogether—too afraid to ever go in again.
Everything else should flow from that intimate love so that when we SERVE him it will be by seeing and loving others rightly, not using them.
the power that will move us into the deep, out past our little pools and into the endless ocean of God's love.
For some divorced people who have barely made it to the side and are clinging to the steps, they do NOT want a new relationship. No way are they ready to leave the safety of the steps in a world of relationships where emotionally you can’t touch bottom and can’t catch your breath.
But for others, they can’t wait to get back into the action. We feel unloved, ugly, old, undesirable, and we just want to feel good about ourselves gain.They are too impatient to sit on the side and allow themselves to fully recover or to examine what went wrong and how to avoid similar problems in the future.They often fail to see that they need to make interior changes and develop better skills before they are really ready to get back into the dating scene.Now you can understand why someone may want to rush back, as it were, into the perceived safety of a new relationship.